I’ve been surfing an American communal wedding blog where brides-to-be get together and discuss wedding plans, love issues and stuff – it’s wonderful reading (they call it wedding porn, because it’s just so gratifying) and looking at pictures of weddings and engagement parties and dresses and rings and stuff.
I’m rather jealous of the resources available in the States for weddings, what with companies renting out cutlery, table linens, gorgeous vintage wooden chairs, colors and colors of bridesmaid’s dresses, etc. But one recurring thing I noticed that I just could not understand was this:
Why do they all have these horrifyingly over-blinged engagement rings? They wear huge, square-cut, banded diamond rings that look like something only super-rich taitais would wear in Singapore and I honestly wonder (with their estimated average budget for weddings reaching US$26,000) where all these people are earning their money, because I would like to work in the States, now.
Anyway, the rings. They wear atrocities like this:
:/ And then they all gush over these rings like they are the most beautiful things ever.
I just don’t understand it, because it’s just…too…bling…for me. Wouldn’t you feel like Fiddy Cent? Some even have colored stones in the middle – THAT SIZE. *jawdrop*
I think diamond solitaires are the most beautiful rings ever :) There’s nothing lovelier than a simple, single diamond ring.
All images from Tiffany’s. The solitaire is Tiffany’s signature cut. Hearts Tiffany but why does it have to be so darn expensive?
A man could propose with nothing but love in his heart and a dream in his hand, and the girl would say yes.
Two things settled – and wow, I can’t imagine the coincidences that just drop into our laps. Yay we will have clean clothes and tasty things!
Happyhappy :D
I also have all these ambitious DIY plans which I suppose will have to wait till June, when I have a bit more free time on my hands.
In the meantime I bought this beautiful wrought iron hanging lamp thing – it’s a sphere of vines and leaves which can be opened to place a tealight inside. Beams at the prettiness! I envision it hanging in a corner, with a scented candle burning happily away and casting a soft light over everything. Warmth :)
i carry your heart with me (i carry it in
my heart) i am never without it (anywhere
i go you go, my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing, my darling)
i fear
no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet) i want
no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart
36 Oreo cookies (almost a whole box)
1 package (8 oz) cream cheese
1 large bag (24 oz) semi-sweet chocolate chips
Sprinkles (optional)
Finely crush Oreo cookies. In a large bowl, mix Oreo cookies and cream cheese until well blended. Shape mixture into 1 inch balls. According to package directions, melt semi-sweet chocolate chips. Dip balls into chocolate and place onto wax paper. If desired, top with sprinkles for color. Refrigerate 1 hour or until firm. Place truffles into small muffin cups; serve on a platter or in individual truffle boxes. Store in the refrigerator until you are ready to serve.
See, my floral package allows me to use the following flowers: eustomas, gerberas, or roses, or any combination. However, because of my l33t bargaining skills, I got her to agree to add five calla lilies to my bridal bouquet.
Now I’m in a bit of a quandary. I can’t decide what kind of bouquet I would like, and the boy is blissfully ambivalent! Help me pick? I like them all (well, except the rose and stephanotis one – I don’t think stephanotis is available in Singapore anyway, but I put it in largely to show what an all-red bouquet is like). Our color scheme is Tiffany blue and poppy red, and my flowers should ideally be red-toned, with a Tiffany blue ribbon/handle. I also want a bit of differentiated red/orange tint in the flowers so that it’s not so monochromatic.